UCE Addictions Ministry
June 30 Agenda
“Simplicity, patience, compassion.
These three are your greatest treasures.
Simple in actions and thoughts, you return to the source of being.
Patient with both friends and enemies,
you accord with the way things are.
Compassionate toward yourself,
you reconcile all beings in the world.”
― Lao Tzu,
Welcome to the UCE Addictions Ministry Group. We are a group of people who have struggled with our own addictions and the addictions of others. We hope to struggle well together as we work towards finding sanity, peace, love, and healthy relationships in our lives. We will strive to spend our time together in a spirit of love embracing the inherent worth and dignity of all. We accept and respect the varied paths that our members will take to find sanity, peace, love, and healthy relationships. We covenant to be together in a safe, confidential environment where we can explore our paths and our stories.
Our Relational Covenant
Embrace and practice deep listening
We will strive to be respectful of our limited time and try to keep our comments focused on the issues that have brought us here.
Experience the group in a non-judgmental frame of mind.
Build trust within the group.
Confidentiality about specifics shared or discussed is imperative for our success.
We each take full responsibility for what we share or say, recognizing retractions are acceptable as well.
Meetings will always start and end on time.
We are trying out having a minute or two of quiet time. Not yet sure where it will fit best.
Check-in and Processing of Check-in
"For fast acting relief; try slowing down."
- Lily Tomlin
Life is simple; we only make it complex. We spend our lives unconsciously covering our authenticity with outer identity until at some point we begin wondering "where everything went wrong." But the tragedy for many people is that the wondering never begins and life's simple beauty is not rediscovered.
I use the word "rediscovered" because you already know that life can be simple because you experienced it as a child. If you are normal, you spent much of your life since then trying to become something other than yourself. But normal is not healthy; success in the unreal world means failure in the real one.
The power and virtue of simplicity is a universal truth; it's wisdom applies to all areas of life. What are some ways you can declutter, simplify and return to your authentic Self? Here are a few ideas that can help.
- Instead of finding new things to add to your life, find things to remove.
- If you want to increase income, decrease expenses.
- Do less thinking and do more wondering.
- Turn down the noise.
- Go to the woods.
- Listen to a child.
As a deep thinker I tend to overthink things. I have to remind myself that thinking less, or even not thinking at all, is often better than thinking more.
There is no reason to spend too much time trying to solve riddles or trying to find things to add. One can only find themselves by removing things, not by adding, and this removal is the foundation of simplicity.
Remove the clutter.
Kent Thune http://www.thefinancialphilosopher.com/2014/04/less-is-more-wisdom-simplicity.html
Just as the hare is zipping across the finish line,
the tortoise has stopped once again
by the roadside,
this time to stick out his neck
and nibble a bit of sweet grass,
unlike the previous time
when he was distracted
by a bee humming in the heart of a wildflower.